grandpa left on 26 Jan. he went to shenzhen to play mahjong with friends. his friends called us when he was in the shenzhen hospital. when my brother reached there from his shenzhen home, grandpa had already gone. i rushed to shenzhen with mom, dad and my 2 aunties. it was already 3am when we arrived. grandpa had already been packed with cloth in mortuary. we saw him there and waved him goodbye.
we waited at my bro's home till early morning, and arranged him back to hk. the doctor told bro that grandpa had just past before my bro arrived the emergency room. bro knew this was not true. grandpa's body was too cold for "just past away". bro told me that grandpa should had died already when he was sleeping at his friend's home. his friend wanted to avoid any trouble, so he called for an ambulance. bro was in time to take care of the documents and the folloiwng procedures before we arrived. i'm glad to learn that grandpa was sleeping when he left.
my mom was a surprised to me. she was so calm, especially when my 2 aunties were in deep depressed. she was the first one to step into the mortuary when my 2 aunties were too scared and stood outside. grandpa's clothes was half off after the rescuing. my dad dressed him well. dad told us shouldn't be too upset, or grandpa would be missing us and didn't want to leave.
i'm fine now. everyone in my family is fine. their maturity make me feel calm.